The other day, someone asked me a simple question that unexpectedly shifted so much of how I think about my choices and how I go about making my them. The question: "Which do you love more, cupcakes or coffee?" As I thought about my response, I found myself delving into unexpected layers of meaning around the two options. I love cupcakes. I love their sweetness, how fun and whimsical they can look, that they feel like an indulgent treat. I love how playful they can be and the